"Friendship is also about liking a person for their failings, their weakness. It's also about mutual help, not about exploitation."
Paul Theroux"The moment that changed me for ever was the moment my first child was born. I was happy, filled with hope, and thought, 'Now I understand the whole point of work, of life, of love.'"
Paul Theroux"Because of my capacity for listening to strangers' tales, or the details of their lives, my patience with their food and their crotchets, my curiosity that borders on nosiness, I am told that anyone traveling with me experiences an unbelievable tedium, and this is why I choose to travel alone."
Paul Theroux"Tourists don't know where they've been, travelers don't know where they're going."
Paul Theroux"Travel is glamorous only in retrospect."
Paul Theroux"One of the things the 'Tao of Travel' shows is how unforthcoming most travel writers are, how most travelers are. They don't tell you who they were traveling with, and they're not very reliable about things that happened to them."
Paul Theroux"Extensive traveling induces a feeling of encapsulation, and travel, so broadening at first, contracts the mind."
Paul Theroux"You define a good flight by negatives: you didn't get hijacked, you didn't crash, you didn't throw up, you weren't late, you weren't nauseated by the food. So you are grateful."
Paul Theroux