"Productive achievement is a consequence and an expression of health and self-esteem, not its cause."
Nathaniel Branden"Tell me how a person judges his or her self-esteem, and I will tell you how that person operates at work, in love, in sex, in parenting, in every important aspect of existence - and how high he or she is likely to rise. The reputation you have with yourself - your self-esteem - is the single most important factor for a fulfilling life."
Nathaniel Branden"Live with integrity, respect the rights of other people, and follow your own bliss."
Nathaniel Branden"Romantic love can be terrifying. We experience another human being as enormously important to us. So there is surrender - not a surrender to the other person so much as to our feeling for the other person. What is the obstacle? The possibility of loss."
Nathaniel Branden